Learn To Recognise Abuse

-- The Damage Done --

Angel Femia

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Many people have not yet realized that within our society the ways in which we think towards each, speak to each other and act towards each other are very abusive.  We somehow missed the realization that emotional pain begins in our brains {right side} and thus causes more damage than anything else can, when out of balance. Our emotional brain causes much of the physical illness we have on the earth today, and all of the emotional illnesses.

Our brain runs our bodies thus without it working properly we are missing a great deal. Many abuses cause physical pain and injury, but all abuses cause emotional pain and the hardest part to heal within an abuse victim is the emotional pain left from the horrid experience.

We all recognise to some degree that Physical and Sexual Abuse exist,

But what about:

Verbal Abuse,

Psychic Abuse,

Ritual Abuse

 and

Emotional Abuse.

Below are some of the most commonly used abuses and if we are honest with ourselves we will see clearly that we all need to change in order to heal ourselves and the world we live in and most of all our children and future generations:

PHYSICAL ABUSE

Physical Abuse is any form of touching {punching, use of a material object of any kind, kicking, physical restraints of any kind, beating, slapping around the head} in anger, frustration, violence, or negativity. {and more}

SEXUAL ABUSE:

Sexual abuse is any form of unwanted sexual attention, (examples: seduction, verbal sexual harassment, child molestation, child pornography, rape ect.)

VERBAL ABUSE:

Verbal abuse is any form of degradation, humiliation, or threats. This includes all forms of gossip, lies, and/or verbal manipulation, such as:

Covert or double messages, brainwashing, intimidation, degradation and humiliation.

PSYSIC ABUSE

Physic Abuse is in the form of silent and verbal manipulative head games,

Peer-pressure, mental seduction, (sexual, material, emotional), covert or double messages, brainwashing, degradation, humiliation,  silent judgments,  jealousy, isolation, and mental intimidation. Ignoring while pretending to be listening, peer pressure, material, emotional or sexual seduction, alienation of affections, neglect, brainwashing, and covert messages are the most commonly used on a daily basis in our lives. We are just beginning to realize the damage done by this form of thinking. Silent hatred {racism, jealousy, resentment, judgments ect.  }, are also included in this abuses.

Road Rage for instance.

It’s done daily and causes grave harm to anyone involved but how often do we look at the emotional impact of Road Rage. If no physical or material damage was done are we opened eyed to the fact that some emotional damage was done.

If I cuss you out and call you degrading names, do you not feel hurt or angered emotionally?

If I carry that negative emotion into my day do I not make mistakes due to it?

RITUAL OR RELIGOUS ABUSE

Ritual Abuse is when any Godly belief system is being used to control, intimidate, seduce or change another's free will to believe whatever they choose to believe -OR- when one is being used in any form of religious or coltish ceremony against one's belief such as: verbal or physic brainwashing, sexual seduction, emotional seduction, ceremonial games, bribery, and more.

Ritual Abuse comes in many forms:

Satanism:

Practising the Ten Commandments Backwards

Examples:

The Tenth Commandment is “Though Shalt Not Kill.” Satanic perception of this law is: “Thou Shalt Kill.” --- or another example --- “Though Shalt Not Lie”

Satanic Followers again perceive  this rule to read: “Though Shalt Lie.” These backward laws can be found on the back page of The Satanic Bible.

Black Magic:

Magic preformed with only lust, selfishness and greed for motivators, preformed only for self- gain, with no regard as to what happens to others or our world and universe.

Ritualistic Ceremonies conducted to gain control or harm others, through fear and major head games.

I searched the web for statistics on abuse. I found a great deal and most do not match in numbers or percentages. Love Cry’s estimates are much higher as we deal with those who never report their abuses to the authorities on a daily basis.

 Some of the reported statistics I found are as follows are:

More than 225, 000 children are abused every year in Canada.

It is estimated that 1 in 10 children are being physically abused.

Between 85% and 90% of child sexual offenders are people our children know and trust, NOT STRANGERS

Over 190 children will go missing in Canada each day. Approximately 40% are Internet related.

It is estimated that there were nearly 12,000 investigations of child sexual abuse in Ontario in 1993.

A report by the Committee on Sexual Offences Against Children and Youth, indicates that among adults, 53% of women and 31% of men were sexually abused as children.

In 1992, child protection authorities put about 40,000 Canadian children into foster care or other settings away from their home. In many of these cases, abuse was a factor.

60% of all sexual assault victims are

children under 18 years of age

In a national study, abused women reported that their partners had also abused their children:

physically – 26% of the time

psychologically {psychic} – 48% of the time

sexually – 7% of the time

Another study reported that almost all sexual abusers of both boys and girls are heterosexual males.

Children know their abuser in over eight out of ten cases. More than four out of ten are fathers or father figures.

Over three in ten children who witness abuse are also physically abused themselves.

Children witness between 40 - 80% of assaults on their mothers.

In 1997-1998, 15,257 women and 13,455 dependent children were admitted* to shelters in Ontario. [Juristat: Canada's Shelters for Abused Women, Vol. 19, no. 6] (* A person might be admitted more than once during the year.)

Six in 10 Canadian incidents of spousal homicide involved a history of domestic violence, of which police were aware. [Juristat: Homicide in Canada, 1998, vol. 19, no. 10].

These estimates are only done on reported abuse. Knowing that abuse is very seldom reported to these authorities we all know that the true facts are a great deal worse.

Borrowed From:    THE WHITE RIBBON CAMPAIN